A girlfriend, a lot of collection of small cards, is the kind of boxy cardboard positive animals, flowers, landscape plants are mostly what the back is blank, you can write fluff in the corners have been raw.
Every time I go, she would like the baby out to give me.
At first, thought it was just some ordinary ordinary cardboard, mocked her a pile of bad paper as precious, and she listened, holding a half-day of those pieces of paper did not move, eye socket gradually red.
Only later did I know that those pieces of paper more than three years of her marriage, marriage enrichment of all days, emotional testimony, accordingly did not dare to make fun of her.
They were married three years, the feeling is not so thick at first, coupled with his career is the flight engineers, occupational stress made him even more reticent, each pre-flight routine, let him nervous trembling fingers. These are that she never thought of. Poly few more days off, so her love between them, resulting in doubts.
Mechanic each time away from home, will write down the words on a card, and then locked in a drawer, she watched him on the back of volts at the desk for his act was full of curiosity and confusion, but He did not give her.
She looked forward to each day that a locked drawer, tea is not fragrant, rice mood, and sometimes wakes up at night, facing the roof of a daze, holding the knife handle that table Hen Buneng split, of course, is also a little more on the hearts of suspicion and discontent, and she felt that he locked on to her is not only a drawer, as well as his heart.
Once mechanics because of the implementation of temporary assignments, no later than two days did not come back. Restlessness, she suddenly remembered that drawer, a long sigh. Hesitation, she sent for tools, pried open that drawer. The results showed that only a thick layer of a drawer inside the pile of cards, a few of what it has provided more than 100.
Was married three years, he has every implementation of the mission left behind, and some passbook card remember the password, and some remember the insurance number, and some only after an apology from a particular quarrel, then, do not big and small. She remembered his own doubts and all sorts of suspicion, I suddenly felt so heart pain, instantaneous burst into tears.
She slowly let go hands, pieces of paper scattered in one place.
Is the trivial life of blunt our hearts, or has become numb to the emotional perception rather suspicious? Love, becoming shorter and shorter shelf life, and even fashionable men and women met the week of marriage, divorce, marriage will be a week, out of siege as forefoot and buy only “hot dog”, that food does not taste rear foot again Quhuan the ” Hamburg “, romantic love is just the cloak, which the contents vary.
Sometimes, thinking too much, demand too much, let’s not converted to a sense of the mind, so that our eyes can not align the focal length of the original of the most real thing, but also see changed shape. Love actually very simple, it is the trivialization of years, in a word, a look, or even just a bowl of porridge.
“Those words on the cards, saying white is actually a testament of love, so that some cruel, I am still willing to call it a memorandum of love. It was more like a life of wealth, more like a love of books, such a romantic How much money can not buy, who can say that I am not rich? When the world did not exist, at least I still have him. ”
His girlfriend told me that these words, it is very calm, but my heart there is a revive a feeling of being wet feeling. Let’s cherish every day together, getting along, whether it is friendship love, affection, and treat every day as the last day, rather than the quality of each other without heating, in the flat to get along in the interpretation of the classic and romantic.
Increasingly loose double chin, there is the baby fat chubby little face was troubled women make beauty. How can I make his face look lean a little while? Beijing Air Force Institute of Aviation Medicine Affiliated Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine Division of the Navy doctor recommended Qin, self facial massage, you can pull up the sagging fat and achieve a face-lift effect. Women of a certain age, the skin of his face will be relaxed, look under the more lenient the face profile, especially in women who already plump, double chin will be very obvious. Because fat is free in nature, the better approach is adopted to enhance the massage.
Specific massage methods are: first the mirror on the chest position, bow down to look out part of the song is to remove the warts. The average point of the massage cream on both sides of the chin and cheeks, and then use the index finger, middle finger, ring finger on both sides of the power of the respective jaw line cook to mention massage, re-use index and middle fingers from the mouth to the cheek area to draw a circle means massage, slow slowly narrowing the scope to increase the massage area. Of course, do not forget doing the auxiliary massage, specific method is to first tap the bottom of the right ear to the jaw position, right hand turn from the bottom-up massage right cheek muscles, and then massage his left cheek in the same way. Down for a month, you receive the effects. In addition to massage, empty time to do more good for facial movement. The easiest way is to practice every day to issue “a, e, i, o, u” a few vowels. However, the beauty is not practiced a day, do not because of impatient and desperate to pull his chin up, we must step by step approach but also gentle, otherwise the skin may much.
August 13, 2006, Israel and Lebanon agree to (Greenwich Mean Time at 5:00 on August 14) after the cease-fire news, marrying men from Lebanon, called on Chinese wife Zhao Ying a long way out of breath. After the outbreak of the Lebanese-Israeli conflict, the Chinese embassy in Lebanon called on many occasions asked her if she would return, but can also bring their husbands and children. However, Zhao Ying Du politely refuse, and because her husband needs to be left behind by the war, and she was in love with her husband and son.
An evacuation option for the family declined to stay
33-year-old Zhao Ying Chinese circles in Lebanon is a celebrity. 2004 Hong Kong Asia Television, “Stories from Afar” film crew went to interview with Lebanon, “married a Chinese woman in Lebanon,” Zhao Ying was interviewed six Chinese wife of one of them. In early 2006, the Chinese peacekeeping troops arrived in Lebanon after the officers and men, Zhao Ying had also enthusiastically help them to find translations.
, “At 1:00 on July 19, my phone rang, which is the sixth since the Israeli invasion of Lebanon, the embassy received a telephone, and asked me if I want to with the Greek passenger ship to leave. Every time when the Chinese team, the withdrawal , the Embassy will always give me a call and asked Otherwise I have to go this time. Although each time the answer is not to go, but they never gave up. and I was told that my Lebanese President and the children can be evacuated together It made me feel a great comfort to feel that this evacuation program human caring! “Zhao Ying politely refuse the Chinese embassy in Lebanon because of the kindness of her husband is a doctor, the war needs to leave her husband who was a doctor, and she is in love with her husband and son. Zhao Ying’s husband, Ed is a dream of Chinese medicine treatment centers, physician, although less than half the patients than usual, but he still waited at the treatment centers. “In the absence of drug cases, acupuncture is still very important.” Charity dreams General said: “Everything will get better.”
As far away as Beijing, Zhao Ying mother is very worried about her daughter. On one occasion, my mother one morning allocated eight times with no international long-distance contacts, feel very anxious, when the time was finally linked to Zhao Ying, immediately advised her to hurry back to Beijing. From then on, in order to prevent her mother worried that Zhao Ying every day online, so that a friend informed her mother, his warmest regards.
2 God has arranged the wonderful and romantic encounter
Speaking of dreams and her husband Ed met Ibrahim, Zhao Ying still laments that God arranged a wonderful romance.
Zhao Ying was born in Xiangfan City, Hubei Province. In 1990, she was admitted to a Beijing school after graduating from white-collar workers in Beijing, led a leisurely life. Every day after work, Zhao Ying went to the East Third Ring Road a women’s fitness club fitness.
This year, childhood brought Zhao Ying’s grandmother had cancer. The news of Zhao Ying is a great blow to her weeping in the unit rented a small house near the Internet, to find again the treatment of cancer, and thus after a day and night. Then her friend called to that about her go to bars relax, previously never went to the bar Zhao Ying decided to relax their mood.
Zhao Ying and friends went to the public body next to a bar. Bar the atmosphere is very warm day, everyone enjoy dancing, Zhao Ying’s girlfriend has also joined the dance floor, by Zhao Ying is drinking himself to one side. 3:00 more than Zhao Ying’s girlfriend has not meant to go, and she had to where a person is left. Does not have a pedestrian street, breathing the winter nights Qinglie air, Zhao Ying feel some ease of mind.
Then, she suddenly came back a man’s voice: “still so early, you’re going?” Zhao Ying Looking back, he saw a man standing in a foreign bar the door, silver moonlight sprinkled on his face, He looked so handsome and pure. Then, that person said: “Do not go, we will stay a while with it.”
As if there is a tacit understanding in heaven, Zhao Ying, and with him went to another bar. They like the same as has been recognized for many years, there is lots to talk about words. During the conversation, Zhao Ying dream that this man is called charity Ibrahim, a graduate of Beijing University of Chinese Medicine, Department 94 sessions of acupuncture, when the charity dream is a company marketing manager.
Recognizing five days later, Zhao Ying decided to dream of marriage and love. “I knew I would marry a foreigner, because I have a strong sixth sense, but I did not think would be married to Lebanese. When the President told me that he is Lebanese, I first thing is to find the A map of the world to see in Lebanon where it is. I have one by one to find, in the end found in the Mediterranean coast, a small country. I said: ‘Well!’ In any case, this country in the Mediterranean sea will definitely be beautiful, and the result is true. ”
Three flames of war into the lives of China’s daughter
In 2001, Zhao Ying decided to follow her husband to settle in Beirut, leaving Beijing, my family is very reluctant to her, because all know that Lebanon is a war-torn country. But the father and mother believed her daughter’s judgments did not block her. Only her mother before she left, on the son made a remark: “If she was in Lebanon is not happy, let her come home.”
When first arrived in Lebanon, all for Zhao Ying for both fresh and strange. In this village, we never closed the door, the door is always open to visitors between more continuous. Marriages will inevitably produce some habits of conflict, but because the charity dreams are very familiar with Chinese culture, the two get along very harmonious. Zhao Ying Lebanese married into the family is a family, a husband at home with four brothers. “Fortunately, they can understand English, so I can use English to communicate with them. But more often I do not have words, but will pay more for them to do something more for them to think, so they would know me, but also would be very nice to me. ”
Zhao Ying’s main task is run by the Chinese in their own center to teach Chinese. Although this work had led her gucci sunglasses income was quite good, but living in exotic Zhao Ying always want to do something for the dissemination of Chinese culture. She gave the Chinese ambassador to Lebanon to write a letter, expressing his own ideas. Soon, the ambassador’s wife to let her return to the letter, praising her as his wife in Lebanon all the Chinese the most idea of one. China’s embassy in Lebanon, supported by Zhao Ying decisions and the Lebanese University with a century-old St. Joseph’s College of planning to set up a Confucius Institute, the purpose is to spread Chinese culture. This project has been substantial progress, and all procedures have been completed. But I never thought that everything was blocked by the war ruthlessly.
Zhao Ying said: “That, more than 12 Israeli fighter jets at 11 pm when the Bay in Beirut and Chuny circled low over the last ten minutes. We are sitting on a sofa, my husband a sweat, when the real fear of , and imagine that the bomb will not hesitate to settle down again, but pray. because his son sitting in my arms, he could feel my heart beat. So I forced a calm, which 10 minutes are like a decade. ”
4 blog express their hearts with grief
The sight of devastation caused by the war, because we see so many innocent civilians killed or wounded, Zhao Ying hearts were full of regret, grief and indignation. “A lot of Chinese people do not understand the situation in the Middle East, I hope my saw and heard faithfully recorded, so that Chinese readers a true understanding of the Middle East.”
To Lebanon ago, Zhao Ying had also in Beijing, Zhaopin as director of marketing, so she first thought of using the Internet to publish their diaries. As a result, Zhao Ying and China’s domestic one website editors made contact, the other side the staff will soon open a blog for her, but also to help her publish a daily diary.
“Take courage! Should adhere to! “” Beautiful country, why it is so weak, “… … From the July 10 start Zhao Ying in that well-known Internet opened a” war of Lebanon’s “blog. During this time, Zhao Ying’s blog click-through rate has been high, many users gave her a message, calling her “Lady of Lebanon in Beijing,” and her exchange of views. Heard this call, Zhao Ying, said: “I am very happy, but also find it very interesting, laugh a night, I will do a better job.”
While writing the blog, Zhao Ying also always gucci handbags concerned about the safety of Chinese peacekeeping soldiers. August 6 morning that injured three Chinese peacekeepers, and the news of the officers and men, she quickly called the Chinese embassy in Lebanon calls. “The three officers and men only minor injuries, did not cause illness. Currently, besides the officers and men on duty at the post, the rest of the people are hiding in bunkers being. As the fierce fighting outside the current engineering battalion could not perform any peacekeeping mission, but to continue to In the post observation, control the situation outside. “Let the words of Ambassador Liu Xianghua Zhao Ying hung down the heart.
Zhao Ying 4-year-old son, millet do not know how to fire a cruel, but do not know if his country is at war. Sometimes, out of the window to see the fire, he always asked her mother: “That was firecrackers it?” In order not to leave to his children’s childhood grief, Zhao Ying will say “Yes.” Sometimes, a person watching TV, there will always see some conflict in the lens. A child is called: “Mom, ‘crackers’ how the house causing damage ah?” Then Zhao Ying the television to animation channel, or allow their children to play games. Perhaps, in the child’s mind, this world is not war, dirty word, everything was just good start. “After the fighting has subsided, what is your plan?” A reporter asked Zhao Ying. “Continue to do in the Middle East’s first long-range Chinese language education web site; continue to set aside the war in Lebanon Confucius Institute project; continued gucci men shoes investment projects in China Medical Center. In addition, I’ll bring my son back to Beijing Tongzhou see my family and my User , non-governmental aid funds back to China, but also help Chinese companies involved in post-war reconstruction of Lebanon.